05/02/2008

Easy Vs Kastam

Easy - Break a relationship and get along with life. ( This is the Easiest thing to do )

Kastam - Sustain the differences in a relationship.

Well this has been most wanted saying these days....All I have seen in my life is only break ups for various reasons....:) People involved in them may not have a broad smile as I do now. The reason why I smile is at the end of the blog.I have seen the pains people go through to overcome a break up.They might smile and laugh and have fun , but I bet they are hiding something beneath their heart.

How does one feel like when they are ditched......Well thats not a million dollar question.The Answer is pretty simple

Frustrated
Irritated
Anger
Depressed
Cheated
Let down
Disappointed
Perplexed
Baffled and even Petrified in few cases.....
Well the funny thing here is that they still Love them with each and every broken piece of their heart.Unbelievable but thats the bitter fact....Now you know why I smiled.

Folks don't search for a conclusion here, search them in your Heart or Mind which ever you use to take a decision.


PS: I haven't had a love failure in my life so far So this blog is in no way connected to my life...:)

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Good Post after a looooong time Naga :)

A part of everyones life...

Actually it might seem easy to break an emotional bond..But after the breakup comes the major part-full of hard feelings,heart broken :( ..so it seems easy ,but not easy !

But sustaining a relationship - it might seem difficult..But actually ,with love, a bit of understanding & respect for each other,its easy to get along with each other accepting the diffences and loving them for what they are...

So..which is EASY or KASTAM...Yet another question rite :)

Nagasaravana Perumal K I said...

@Mithra

You can better start a Blog of ur own....:)

Anonymous said...

u have insulted me in public :(

Nimme said...

Naga,
I really liked this post. It is not a cliche comment!!

I liked the words ..they love with every broken pieces heart back

To be honest when relationship breaks its better not to talk to the person again. Each of us can give a million reasons on each side but then ultimately its better to let off the person whom u loved sincerely rather to talk,find reasons why the relationship failed because the more you talk , the more you get confused with self imposed questions like why did she do it?what is the reasons?

Whatever da these days love,commitment and relationships are like mauriti esteem ad.."there is always a next time"

We have to thank them for leaving us because def we would have learned something from them,more than thanking them,one has to thank for the experience it gave us!!!

Nice post da
Looks like Vday perfect post

Anonymous said...

nice post..
i have always thought abt it.. but when it comes to making/breaking.. lot more emotions involved rather than brainy thoughts..

Evil's Twin (JP) said...

Lovely comment by Mithra. Every word of it is true. I know of ppl who have stayed together for 9 years now, going to get married and ppl go broke apart 9 years ago and still carrying the pain of splitting up.

So easy / hard. It depends on the attitude of the ppl involved and also the love they shared.

-Jude