2nd Tag...!

1.Pick out a scar you have, and explain how you got it.?
A small scar below my Lips on the right side and I still have no idea how I got that. May be my Mom could explain that.

2. What is on the walls in your room?
Nothing. ( You can find Lizards sometimes...he he he...)

3. What does your phone look like?
NOKIA 7610 ( Would love to have W810 i or W830 i )

4. What music do you listen to?
Melodies, Romantic ones in particular.....

5. What is your current desktop picture?
Shalini from Alaipayuthey.

6. What do you want more than anything right now?
I just want to retain what I have now till my end.

7. Do you believe in gay marriage?
Of course not.

8. What time were you born?
Will have to ask Mom again.

9. Are your parents still together?
Yeah...!

10. What are you listening to?
Discussion by some of the colleagues, keyboard keys getting hit etc....in the office.

11. The last person to make you cry?
K.I. Naga Saravana Perumal

12. What is your favourite perfume/cologne?
ZATAK/Set Wet

13. What kind of hair/eye colour do you like on the opposite sex?
Black Hair and Brown Eyes.

14. Do you like pain killers?
I haven't used them.

15. Are you too shy to ask someone out?
I haven't asked anyone out so far.

16. Favourite Pizza topping?
I don't like pizzas but i prefer anything Non-Veg.

17. If you could eat anything right now, what would it be
Lemon Rice and Chicken Masala. ( Haven't tasted this Combination for years....)

18. Who was the last person who made you mad?
Sadha in Unnalae Unnalae , Shriya in Shivaji stills.....

19. Is anyone in love with you?
Many are in love with me....Guess who are those....:-)

Unnlae Unnale

I was never in a mood to pen down my views on the movie. But, reading documents for a long time made me boring and now i have decided to write what I feel about the movie " Unnalae Unnalae ".

Let me start with the music. All songs were fabulous and it is a great treat for music lovers. Harris Jayaraj has done a wonderful job for this romantic movie with some great tunes. "Unnalae Unnale Vin Aazha Chendrae" was an awesome composition with lyrics to its added advantage. "Vaikasi Nilavae" was to my liking when compared to other songs. But, not have this opinion they would rather prefer the former.

Cinematography: It was too good and that's not a wonder as the man behind the camera was none other than the director Jeeva himslef. He has done the job that he does always and the movie is a visual treat to watch.

Casting:
Hero : I still don't know his name and i didn't want to :-) He was smart but, was lacking experience.He was not expressive throughout the movie which was very important for a romantic movie.Neither was he good in dancing though he didn't have much of that to do in the movie.

Sadha : She was gorgeous.She was too good in the early part of the movie and in the song sequences. But the look she had when the story moved to Australia was not appealing. She has done justice to her role I would say.

Tanisha : She was bubbly and was so apt for the character. Perfect choice form the director. She was good looking too.

Others : Other poeple in the movie play nth fiddle doesn't cause any drift to the flow of the movie. The Entire movie revolves around only three people.

Story Line : Story is simple. A triangular love story as everyone would guess seeing the cast and in the Climax one is left alone. The change here is that person chooses to be alone rather than being abandonded by the hero as in other movies.

Direction and Screenplay : Both were not to my liking. Movie after interval was bit boring and the attempt to make it lively by including some comedy has gone for a toss.Other than that Jeeva has done a decent job. Dialogues were very normal and nothing was special about it.

My View : The concept of the movie was too good and I really liked that a lot. "Love someone for what they are". But I personally feel that sadha's chracter could have been portrayed in a much better way. The reasons for her getting angry with the hero and fighting with him seems to be too correct for me. You can never expect a girl to love you knowing that u flirt a lot and do all sort of non-sense with some other girls. That is too much to ask for, from a girl. If the reasons had been sillier than they were , then it would have made more sense to the screenplay.

On the Whole it is a good romantic movie ( Rare genere these days.....) to watch atleast once.You can enjoy the movie just for the Music and Cinematography.

Pre-marital Sex

Pre-marital Sex, Is it right or wrong?

I am pretty sure that we will never have a unanimous opinion on this and debating will go on and on if we are to have one, with conflicting perceptions from various corners of the society. I have been pondering over to write about this topic for almost 2 yrs back but refrained from doing so as many who read my blog is from the orthodox Tamil society and a very few will appreciate my views. Well I am ready to break the shackles now, but only for a few and you are one among them.... :)  This is the only reason for my new blog space.

Pre-marital sex is perfectly right an act and I don't see anything wrong in it. People with a different view can stop here, continuing is only going to irritate and frustrate you ... :) The term by itself has gained popularity only in the recent times and there were not many instances of the same being talked about a couple of decades back. At the same time none can deny its existence right from the day mankind came into existence, but it is more prevalent these days than it was in the past. Everything has a reason in the world except love, so does the increase in the pre-marital affairs. There are few factors leading to it and the average age of getting into marriage is a vital factor of all. The average age of people getting into marriage have been increasing steadily over years and we can see people marrying in their late twenties or early thirties which was an age to have couple of children going to school for our previous generation. The next factor would be the age at which we attain physical maturity which has been decreasing on contrary to the previous factor. And when I say physical maturity I mean the readiness of the people to explore their sexual capabilities. I am not sure if physical maturity is the right term for it…. ! ! !  To my knowledge many girls attained puberty during their 12^th standard or after that a generation back, but it is not a rare sight to see a girl attaining puberty when she is in her 6^th std or even below in few cases these days. The major blaming for this goes to the kind of diet we have and it is still in research I believe. But for some reason it has come down over years. And the last according to me would be lack of exposure to sex education and that has not improved till date. I don’t see a drastic improvement even in the near future.

Considering all these factors it’s natural for someone to indulge in pre-marital affairs and you can’t blame them for it. Had they married earlier they would have had a passage to meet their biological needs and pre-marital affairs is something they would have never given a thought about. People today go through a tremendous pressure in their academic and professional life than the ones from the previous generation and pre-marital affairs help them to relax a bit from all these pressures. It also helps them to explore their sexual side and even decide what kind of a girl or guy they like before marriage to some extent but one should also be aware that life is not just about sex.. J After having said all these this theory holds good both sexes and generally our society doesn’t mind what a guy does before marriage and act differently when it comes to a girl. That’s totally unfair, if a guy wants to have an pre-marital affair then he should be more than ready to accept a wife who is not a virgin… J That’s a bitter pill for him to take but the girl had done the same for him too. And when it comes to extra-marital affairs people have I see that to be cheating and I am still not able to see the right side of it. Many have argued it is just because of the fact they have ended up with a wrong partner. I need to explore on that side of relationships a little more before I can comment anything on that …. J

Disclaimer: This is just my personal opinion and has got nothing to do with my personal life :)

My New Bike....!

Hi Everybody, it has been quite long time since I had my fingers working for my Blog.Project has kept me busy making me work even in weekends sometimes.Fine that's life and we have to cope up with that.

Coming to the new bike that I have got for myself is really doing great. Of course my Dad paid for that and that's the coolest part of it. He promised a bike if I get 1100+ in 12th standard board exams and only now he has fulfilled it. I have been waiting for that for very long time almost for 10 yrs. And now I feel so happy owning a bike for myself. Many people complained about me paying some extra bucks to get the number that wanted to have. But I just wanted to have the number i wanted and got it for some extra bucks.

TN 22
AU 4949 Easy to remember....! Isn't it...!

Now, How has that changed my life.....! Hmm.....quite a lot. I come to office as I wish since I am no longer bound to follow the Bus Timings.Getting up as late as 9 or as early as 5:30 and reaching office whenever i feel like.It has kept me busy even in the weekends.These days I don't give a second thought about freaking around and I have roamed a lot that the Meter reading stands at 1900kms after a month and few days.It has also brought down my expenses for Auto which kept climbing when I didn't have a bike. On the whole I am feeling totally independent now about my transport.....

Into Project....!

Hi people I have been finally put into some serious project where I am to work beyond 6 and I find very little time to update my Blog page these days.....

I hope to take sometime off and meet u all with something interesting in the Near future..... Keeping my Fingers crossed for that....:)

50 Question's

Well I have been tagged for the First time in the Blog world. 50 Questions to answer. Tough one.... Here we go...!

1. Were you named after anyone?
You can refer to my previous Blogs for the meaning. That’s a long Story.

2. Do you wish on stars?
I love watching them lying in the terrace.

3. When did you last cry?
October 2005. Will have to check my Diary for the date.

4. Do you like your handwriting?
I like but not others....:)

5. What is your favourite meat?
I have to give a Diplomatic answer. Anything Edible.

6. What is your most embarrassing CD on your shelf?
Nothing is so embarrassing.

7. If you were another person, would YOU be friends with you?
Of Course.

8. Are you a daredevil?
Sometimes.

9. How do you release anger?
Take deep Breathes and Remain calm.

10. Where is your second home?
???...

11. Do you trust others easily?
Not at all.

12. What was your favourite toy as a child?
I have faded memories of playing with them. So the answer is nothing.

13. What class in school/college do you think is totally useless?
8th std. Too many enquires in that year. Almost expelled from school....:)

14. Do you use sarcasm a lot?
Ya sometimes.

15. Have you ever been in a mosh pit?
I have never been in a Mosh Pit.

16. What do you look for in a guy/girl?
Love and Care with some amount of Wisdom.

17. Would you bungee jump?
I am ready for it any time.

19. What's your favourite ice cream?
Chocolate.

20. What are your favourite colours?
Black, Blue, Red.

21. What are your least favourite things?
Cheating, Sulking and Make-up.

22. How many people do you have a crush on right now?
Depends on number of Beautiful girls I see everyday...:)Just Kidding....None now.

23. Who do you miss most right now?
None.

24. What are you listening to right now?
Some fading discussions by my colleagues.

25. If you were a crayon, what colour would you be?
Black.

26. What is the weather like right now?
Good.

27. Last person you talked to on the phone?
Mithra a Friend of Mine.

28. The "first" thing you notice about the opposite sex?
Face and Structure.

29. Do you like the person who sent you this?
Ya I do.

30. How are you today?
I am fine. (See the movie “Italian Job” for the Meaning.)

31. Favourite non alcoholic drink?
"Jil Jil Jigardhanda...", Appy , Mango Juice.

32. Favourite Alcoholic drink?
I haven’t tasted anything yet....Strange and unbelievable but still true....:)

33. Natural hair colour?
Black

34. Eye colour?
Black

35. Wear contacts?
No

36. Siblings?
FOUR Elder Sisters.

37. Favourite month?
May...!!

38. Favourite food?
Strictly Non- Vegetarian. Especially Chettinad and Chinese.

39. Favourite day of the year?
My Birthday...

40. Have you ever been too shy to ask someone out?
I have never thought about asking someone out....:)

41. Scary movies or happy endings?
Romantic Movies (Happy Endings)

42. Summer or winter?
I will also go with Spring...!

43. Holi or Diwali?
Diwali

44. Do you like your name?
A lot. A unique one and no one has that in this universe.

45. What book/magazine are you reading?
Nothing now. Planning for Digital fortress.

46. What's on your mouse pad?
My Company Logo.

47. What did you watch on TV last night?
I don't have one in my Room.

48. Favourite Smell?
Rain in Dry Sand, Freshly Granulated Chillies..I can smell it even now...Wow...:)

49. Have you ever regretted breaking up with someone?
No. I never regret anything that I have done so far.

50. Most tiresome thing you’ve ever experienced/done?.
Being in IT Industry knowing nothing to code...:)
Hope my Manager is not into Blogs..

I pass this tag to...

Sai Thilak
Ajay

What Brains Do I Have...???

I Am 45% Left Brained, 55% Right Brained

Left Side The left side of your brain controls verbal ability, attention to detail, and reasoning.Left brained people are good at communication and persuading others.If you're left brained, you are likely good at math and logic.Your left brain prefers dogs,reading,and quiet. Right Side The right side of your brain is all about creativity and flexibility.Daring and intuitive, right brained people see the world in their unique way.If you're right brained, you likely have a talent for creative writing and art.Your right brain prefers day dreaming, philosophy, and sports. Don't comment asking if I have a brain first. I do have one....:)