Guys are Always Guys....!

So Girls we are like this.....It is all in Birth. Blame god and not us when u find us doing naughty things the next time.... :)

U Me aur Hum

It is just a brilliant movie except for the songs and casting. The story was a sensible one.I have not watched an emotional drama with such intensity in my life. I don't think there is one to come in future also. Had it been SRK in place of Ajay Devgan it would have been a perfect film altogether. I say this not because I like SRK but because of the fact that he would have done a great justice to the role.It was pathetic to see Ajay do those romantic sequences. He is better doing action movies rather than the romantic ones. It is really unfortunate that Ajay did this movie. But still I appreciate his attempt in making such a beautiful piece of work.

I really wonder if one can love someone more than themselves....??? I don't have an answer yet and I am confused about this. Only Mothers can do that. They are the only soul to love their child more than themselves. When it comes to love between individuals i don't think this will happen.But if this is to happen then "someone" is the most luckiest person in the world.

People with a reasonable Maturity will find the movie making sense... :) My suggestion would be to watch it once with your better half holding their hands. At least I would prefer it that way. I would just love that... :)

Now it is up to you to decide whether to watch this one or not.

Tagged Again... :)

Tagged By.... ??? who else Nirmal Again

Here we go

1. Last movie you saw in a theater?
Bank Job in AMC here in Richardson. Damn good movie in all aspects... :)

2. What book are you reading?
Nothing off late.

3. Favorite board game?
Business. We owned cities and hotels when we were in 10th Std.... :)

4. Favorite magazine?
Nothing in specific.

5. Favorite smells?
Aroma of the sand when it rains and petrol.

6. Favorite sounds?
Birds Chirping and water Gushing

7. Worst feeling in the world?Being Cheated

8. What is the first thing you think of when you wake up?
Different things each day.

9. Favorite fast food place?
TAPCO in Madurai. The shop was closed long back. But thats were i had my first Fried Rice.

10. Future child's name?
It should start with Sakthi...( I have to consult with my Better half also )

11. Finish this statement. "If I had lot of money I'd....?"
Enjoy life like anything.... :)

12. Do you drive fast?
At times. When there is a need.

13. Do you sleep with a stuffed animal?
Never in my life.

14. Storms - cool or scary?
Of course scary.

15. What was your first car?
Yet to get one.

16. Favorite drink?
Jil Jil Jigardhanda from Madurai.

17. Finish this statement, "If I had the time I would...."?
Spend that with my Girl.

18. Do you eat the stems on broccoli?
No

19. If you could dye your hair any color, what would be your choice?
Light Brown.

20. Name all the different cities/towns you've lived in?Madurai,Chennai,Bangalore,Richardson

21. Favorite sports to watch?
F1, Football ( Club ), Womens Tennis .... :)

22. One nice thing about the person who sent this to you?
Nirmal is dedicated in anything he does. As far as i know.

23. What's under your bed?
Carpet. I use a comforter to sleep.

24. Would you like to be born as yourself again?
I would love too.

25. Morning person, or night owl?
Morning person. I wake up at 6 or 7 no matter at what time I sleep.

26. Over easy, or sunny side up?
Honestly speaking I didn't understand the question.

27. Favorite place to relax?
Sofa at my home.

28. Favorite pie?
None

29. Favorite ice cream flavor?
Chocolate

30. Of all the people you tagged this to, who's most likely to respond first?
I am not tagging anyone. Actually i don't know anyone in the blog world and the ones I know have been already tagged.

Women's Freedom

Here is an interesting topic to look at "Womens' Freedom". I have never heard anyone talk about "Mens' Freedom". It sounded little strange right from my childhood why various leaders and social reformers fight for women and not men.Well I did hate women then. But as I myself grew up as a Male Chauvinist in the society I started realizing the necessity to fight for such noble cause.

It took a while for me to get rid of the Male Chauvinism in me and I am still trying to eradicate the same completely.It takes time for a guy to realize the importance of women in ones life having been brought up in a male dominant society.I am not sure if i will overcome my basic character in my lifetime... :( Many say that the women now have their freedom looking at Indira Noooyi , Jayalalitha and few other achievers not to forget Kiran Bedi. Well I am proud of what they have achieved, leave alone the adverse effects they have brought to the society and cheers to them.

But let me stop and think for a while, hmmm....Is that the fact ...????? Of course not.

Many people boast about women's freedom in media. But the fact is that, they are way behind from enjoying the real freedom.Many are not given the right to choose their careers.Well leave alone the career they are not even given a chance to voice their opinions in choosing their better half. This is ridiculous to me but thats the fact and people live with it. For poeple raising their eye-brows to say no , you have to go down south to check the groung truths.

Even many of my loved ones never had a choice but to marry the ones chosen by their dad, neither did they have the courage to speak against as they were brought up in such a manner. Same is the case even now. I have seen few families accepting love marriage for guys and not for girl.I have no clue as to what logic they use for this kind of a decision making.Few even have gone to the level of beating them like hell when they confessed about their love for someone. The pathetic thing is even the mothers are like this.People saying "NO CHANCE" please try to interact with people from southern part of Tamilnadu.

I should not forget the one who are kind enough to listen to their girls opinion and give her full freedom. But the former outnumbers the later :(...... So please try to treat your girl child as you treat your guys.I am just asking to try. I am not a social reformer, just yet another guy trying to build a conducive environment for the future generation...:) It is just a suggestion. It is up to you people to realize whats right and put that into practice.

Easy Vs Kastam

Easy - Break a relationship and get along with life. ( This is the Easiest thing to do )

Kastam - Sustain the differences in a relationship.

Well this has been most wanted saying these days....All I have seen in my life is only break ups for various reasons....:) People involved in them may not have a broad smile as I do now. The reason why I smile is at the end of the blog.I have seen the pains people go through to overcome a break up.They might smile and laugh and have fun , but I bet they are hiding something beneath their heart.

How does one feel like when they are ditched......Well thats not a million dollar question.The Answer is pretty simple

Frustrated
Irritated
Anger
Depressed
Cheated
Let down
Disappointed
Perplexed
Baffled and even Petrified in few cases.....
Well the funny thing here is that they still Love them with each and every broken piece of their heart.Unbelievable but thats the bitter fact....Now you know why I smiled.

Folks don't search for a conclusion here, search them in your Heart or Mind which ever you use to take a decision.


PS: I haven't had a love failure in my life so far So this blog is in no way connected to my life...:)

Beauty Vs Beauty

It is not a Beauty contest nor is a Fashion parade but still 2 beauties go against each other....:)



Vs







You couldn't ask for a better showdown in Australian Open finals.Just look how big this gets... I meant the contest, not anything else....:)

Who is Hotter...? I guess Ana Ivanovic, though I like Maria too...:) Enjoy the Match.....

And the winner is Mariaaaaaaaaaaa Sharapovaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa............... ! !


No matter who won....It was a nice match to watch...:)

Yet Another Tag..!

Smoked a cigarette?
Yes.

Crashed a friend's car?
Not yet...:)

Stolen a car?
No.

Been in love?
Few times.

Been dumped?
Never gave a Chance.

Shoplifted?
Yes. Was caught once...:(

Been in a fist fight?
Many times when I was in School.

Had feelings for someone who didn't have them back?
Yes.

Been arrested?
No

Gone on a blind date?
No never had a chance to.

Skipped school?
No. But skipped college a lot.

Been on a plane?
Not yet.

Seen someone die?
No.

Purposely set a part of yourself on fire?
Yes.

Been jet-skiing?
No

Met someone in person from the Internet?
Yes.

Taken pain killers?
I have. I prefer not to.

Flown a kite?
Once or Twice.

Built a sand castle?
No

Gone puddle jumping?
No

Cheated while playing a game?
Of course.

Been lonely?
I stay alone in a Flat. So I am alone most of the times.

Fallen asleep at work or school/college?
Ya in college but not at work.

Used a fake ID?
No.

Felt an earthquake?
Yes.

Slept beneath the stars?
Yes when I go on a pilgrimage.

Been robbed?
No.

Been misunderstood?
Happens Frequently.

Won a contest?
Many when I was in school and couple in college [In college I won by cheating....:)].
Few in office.

Run a red light/stop sign?
A lot.

Been suspended from school?
No, was close to being suspended in college.

Been in a car accident?
No.

Eaten a whole pint of ice cream in one night?
Ice creams does not interest me.

Walked the streets drunk?
I have never drunk.

Had déjà vu?
Have no clue what it is.

Danced in the moonlight?
Ya.

Witnessed a crime?
Yes.

Squished barefoot through the mud?
Yeah.

Been lost?
Yes when I was around 8 yrs old.

Been on the opposite side of the country?
Well Goa is the distant place I have ever been to.

Swum in the ocean?
I don't swim.

Cried yourself to sleep?
I don't cry.

Played cops and robbers?
Yeah when I was young.

Recently colored with crayons?
Last time was when I was in 8th.

Sung karaoke?
No. But I was a Choir member in the School.

Paid for a meal with only coins?
No.

Done something you told yourself you wouldn't?
Yes.

Made prank phone calls?
Many a Times.I just love it.

Caught a snow flake on your tongue?
No

Written a letter to Santa Claus?
No.

Blown bubbles?
Yes.

Bonfire on the beach?
No but done once which was bad.

Cheated during a test?
I have done it throughout my life.

Gone skinny-dipping in a pool?
No .